Thursday, September 30, 2010

You can only be young once but can always be immature


"You can only be young once but can always be immature"
There are times when one loses the ability to cry,rather fails to give vent to a shock which is far above the endurance level. These helpless moments are beyond transference, as words fail miserably before the tour de force here. One really couldn't believe what he faced at that instant which is coded indelibly in the brain when the never expected happened. Normally one goes with family in the best terms other than when any member goes or seems to go only on emotions and imaginations. Here an advice or a show of anger at times to create an active striving for the growth and happiness of the dear ones is inevitable.
‘Have when changes in to a have-not’ feels a sort of anxiety. It’s not the sign of an immature person who is focused too much on fantasy and fear of rejection nor the tone condescending or objectifying. Sometimes the world turns upside down in an instant, and one’s life is never the same again. Some events act as a catalyst for changes in lives. Enduring the hell of being abused and stalked are in some ways a great gift. It makes one think about one’s role, position, worth, strength, wisdom, and gives a new lease on life and the opportunity to understand the transition of change that others have undergone. These transitional ‘progress’ of others may open one’s eyes to those new things, strange and bitter, but realities, which would never have striked the mind or sensed ever before.
Now one looks up, down and all around, to see pure darkness. That's when the tide is higher than one can breathe and need something to hold on to,lest will drown.No judgment,no reprimand. Just a sense of openness and truth, where one can let go and allow oneself to fall on the sword that will pierce the heart,die not to be reborn.
Everything can be going along just fine when suddenly the personal sky falls down and get blindsided. No one is immune to life’s art and its tendency to turn upside down. Be Bill Gates or beggar it never matters.
Unfortunately many people have been faced with the excruciating decision of whether or not to continue a strained life.The relationships, when stressed or tensed, are the worst to endure. If one has to cut the ties,the term tough love comes to mind, but the need is more about peace of mind which over powers.
The interesting aspect about families is that people can tolerate more bad than good, yet it can still be considered a satisfying relationship for members.In this instance, families can drive one as nuts, and also be there by his side in tough spots. Family members are those who've seen one at his best and worst.They keep their unconditional state to disagree, which is otherwise called respect without willing to change or control.
Imagination, the supreme delight of the immaturity, should be limited in order to enjoy life.

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